Not Buying It!

Marketers use super-sneaky tactics to get you to spend big. Here’s how to fight back against the hard sell.

You’ve promised yourself you’re going to save your pennies. But when you’re shopping with your friends, you see the cutest pair of sunglasses—on sale. Or you’re playing Fortnite and up pops a cool new skin—available for a limited time only!

The next thing you know, you’ve frittered away your cash on something you don’t need. Ugh. Why is it so hard to stop spending?

If it feels like companies are constantly coming up with ways to get into your wallet, that’s because they are, says Josh Golin, executive director of Fairplay, an organization that fights marketing aimed at children.

Companies target teens because they know you have money to burn, Golin says, and they expect you to be less savvy than adults. “The earlier they get you attached to a brand, the more likely it is that you will be a lifelong customer,” he says.

But that doesn’t mean you’re helpless to resist their powers. Simply understanding the ways companies are manipulating you is a huge  step toward fighting back. So read on to learn about the biggest purchase pitfalls in the places where you spend time­—and how to avoid them so you can boost your bank account.

1) In Video Games

WHAT THEY'RE SELLING: Many video games today are free because gaming companies are counting on you to spend big bucks for tons of add-ons that give you a competitive edge or make your character look cool.  Some companies make their best weapons and other highly coveted items available only in “loot boxes”­—virtual goodie bags you have to pay for before you know what’s inside.


THE PROBLEM: When you use fake currency to buy something, it’s harder for your brain to compute the real cost, so you tend to spend more. Experts say loot boxes are especially troubling because they’re a form of gambling: Your chance of getting something good is slim, so you keep buying—and your spending can quickly spiral out of control. One 19-year-old Star Wars Battlefront II player posted an open letter on Reddit saying he spent about $10,000 on in-game purchases!


MONEY-SAVING HACK: Choose games you can enjoy without buying a lot of extra stuff. Agree with your parents on a spending limit and ask them for a gift card instead of linking a credit card to your account. That way when the money’s gone, it’s gone—and you won’t be able to overspend.

2) On Social Media

57% of social media users make unplanned purchases when they’re on social media.

WHAT THEY'RE SELLING: Everything! We’ve all been there: Someone you follow on TikTok has a new smartwatch or raves about a new skincare product, and you think, “If it makes them look that good, I need it too!”


THE PROBLEM: When social media stars talk about a brand they love, they are almost always being paid to promote that product—even if it’s not marked as sponsored content. You may think you aren’t affected, but studies show endorsements are powerful. Companies make about $5 back for every $1 they pay an online influencer.


MONEY-SAVING HACK: Reminding yourself that celebrities get paid to promote brands and products can help keep your FOMO under control. If you see something you feel you must have, put it in your cart, then wait a day—after 24 hours, you may realize you don’t really need it.

Saving Makes Dollars and Sense

Cutting back a little bit today could pay off big in the future

The average U.S. teen spends $2,165 a year on things like clothes, shoes, and electronics. If you put just under 10 percent of that amount—$200, or about the price of one pair of fancy sneakers—in a savings account that earns interest each year for the next 10 years, you could have almost $2,500!

3) At the Coffee Shop

 

HACK!

Flavored Syrup + Decaf + Free Whipped Cream

WHAT THEY'RE SELLING: Caffeinated concoctions with fancy names that look pretty on Instagram and taste like a sugary dessert.


THE PROBLEM: If you buy a $4.75 caramel macchiato every day, your coffee habit will set you back about $33 a week, $132 a month, and a whopping $1,584 per year! Even a once-a-week habit adds up to $247 over a year. (And you already know all that caffeine and sugar isn’t great for your physical health either.)


MONEY-SAVING HACK: Get a fancy-tasting drink without the fancy price tag by asking the barista to add flavored syrup to an inexpensive cup of decaf coffee or plain steamed milk. At many shops, you can even add whipped cream for no extra charge! Or switch to tea—it usually costs less than coffee, and you can jazz it up with milk, honey, or lemon.

4) At the Mall

WHAT THEY'RE SELLING: Name-brand and designer products, clothes, and shoes. You know they cost more than you want to spend, so you’re planning just to window shop . . . well, maybe you’ll try something on, but that’s it.


THE PROBLEM: The mall’s entire environment is designed to get you to spend, says Brynn Winegard, who studies the science of consumer behavior. A gigantic sale sign lures you into the store, but the bargains are hidden in the back, so to get to them you have to walk past all the eye-catching full-price items. Meanwhile, the lighting, the piped-in scent, and the background music are all specially crafted to boost your mood and make you linger. “The longer you spend in a store, the more likely you are to buy,” she says.


MONEY-SAVING HACK: Next time you go to the mall with friends, bring only as much cash as you are comfortable spending. If you fall in love with something pricey, take a selfie, then put the item back on the rack. If you still want it a week later, think about adding it to your birthday list or making it a reward for yourself for reaching a goal (like finishing your science project).

5) At a Restaurant or Food Court

WHAT THEY'RE SELLING: Food, ambience, and a place to hang out with your friends.


THE PROBLEM: It’s expensive! You pay about three or four times more for food in a restaurant than you would for the same food if you were to make it yourself at home. That may not be a big deal if it’s an occasional treat, but surveys show the average teen spends about $20 a week dining out. That’s more than $80 a month and $1,040 a year!


MONEY-SAVING HACK: Order tap water instead of soda to save $2 to $3 every time you eat out, and order only as much food as you know you’ll actually eat—otherwise you’ll be throwing your money in the trash along with those leftover fries. Or just order an appetizer—they’re often as big as an entree!

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